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		<title>Comment on Best Practices Vs Bright Spots by Shankar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shankar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 10:11:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting take</description>
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		<title>Comment on Best Practices Vs Bright Spots by Vinay Dabholkar</title>
		<link>http://www.after3beers.com/?p=159&#038;cpage=1#comment-526</link>
		<dc:creator>Vinay Dabholkar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Aug 2010 03:10:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Akki,

Great post! Why don&#039;t &quot;Best practices&quot; don&#039;t work most of the times? I can see a few reasons:

1. They become generalized &amp; abstract (e.g. Getting up early is good for health, or good communication is cornerstone of technical leadership)

2. They are stated in a context independent manner. However, they are really context sensitive. (e.g. Want to become healthy? Run for 20 minutes every day). 

Bright spots try to fix both these issues. A bright spot acts as a concrete example as against an abstract one. Also bright spot, by definition, works within *your* context. Hence, what ever subtle/cultural biases apply for you, in all likelihood they apply for the bright spot as well.

Keep posting.

Vinay</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Akki,</p>
<p>Great post! Why don&#8217;t &#8220;Best practices&#8221; don&#8217;t work most of the times? I can see a few reasons:</p>
<p>1. They become generalized &amp; abstract (e.g. Getting up early is good for health, or good communication is cornerstone of technical leadership)</p>
<p>2. They are stated in a context independent manner. However, they are really context sensitive. (e.g. Want to become healthy? Run for 20 minutes every day). </p>
<p>Bright spots try to fix both these issues. A bright spot acts as a concrete example as against an abstract one. Also bright spot, by definition, works within *your* context. Hence, what ever subtle/cultural biases apply for you, in all likelihood they apply for the bright spot as well.</p>
<p>Keep posting.</p>
<p>Vinay</p>
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		<title>Comment on Best Practices Vs Bright Spots by Naresh Jain</title>
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		<dc:creator>Naresh Jain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 07:39:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice blog. I like the concept of bright spots. There is some interesting stuff on similar lines in the Complex Adaptive System&#039;s Theory. You should see Dave Snowden&#039;s work on this subject to get a feel for it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice blog. I like the concept of bright spots. There is some interesting stuff on similar lines in the Complex Adaptive System&#8217;s Theory. You should see Dave Snowden&#8217;s work on this subject to get a feel for it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are We Trustworthy? by a weekend spent well- day 1 &#124; The Journey</title>
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		<dc:creator>a weekend spent well- day 1 &#124; The Journey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 03:19:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] (2010-07-29): This blog presents a very relevant and candid account from one of the active Agilist. I just hope he did not [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] (2010-07-29): This blog presents a very relevant and candid account from one of the active Agilist. I just hope he did not [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are We Trustworthy? by kumar</title>
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		<dc:creator>kumar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 May 2010 07:23:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well covered points.  And in the right forum, I guess.

While all of this is excellent diagnosis, apart from me and my self restraint, where do we start addressing this issue - at schools, homes, corporations, municipalities, etc. ?  Like Swami Vivekananda had perceived in the 1890&#039;s itself, three Indians cannot come to a consensus even today; what then we are talking of a nation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well covered points.  And in the right forum, I guess.</p>
<p>While all of this is excellent diagnosis, apart from me and my self restraint, where do we start addressing this issue &#8211; at schools, homes, corporations, municipalities, etc. ?  Like Swami Vivekananda had perceived in the 1890&#8242;s itself, three Indians cannot come to a consensus even today; what then we are talking of a nation.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are We Trustworthy? by Thiagarajan Arunachalam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Thiagarajan Arunachalam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2010 08:26:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>On many of your points I can&#039;t but agree. 

Do you recall my discussion in karmayog-hyd  earlier when I had brought in a mention of &#039;Games Indian Play&#039; by Prf. Raghunathan of IIMA.

You are talking about taking decisions about marriage and career of our boys. How many take independent design decisions at work? How many can defend their design decisions?

How do we break the vicious chain or circle? One begets the other and the cycle never breaks and we quickly find excuses to justify why we are what we are.

Decision making from an young age and at the same time a good secure family environment supportive of even wrong decisions by their kids would make a start. As long as parents continue to believe that they are responsible for their kids&#039; education, career, marriage and at the end their happiness also - this country will continue to be what it is. Kids lean on parents and they in turn lean on the kids and they do not want to leave one another.

The country and its citizens should GROW up...

I enjoyed your language and ofcourse I am able to see your yearning to see the society to improve...

Love
Tiger</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On many of your points I can&#8217;t but agree. </p>
<p>Do you recall my discussion in karmayog-hyd  earlier when I had brought in a mention of &#8216;Games Indian Play&#8217; by Prf. Raghunathan of IIMA.</p>
<p>You are talking about taking decisions about marriage and career of our boys. How many take independent design decisions at work? How many can defend their design decisions?</p>
<p>How do we break the vicious chain or circle? One begets the other and the cycle never breaks and we quickly find excuses to justify why we are what we are.</p>
<p>Decision making from an young age and at the same time a good secure family environment supportive of even wrong decisions by their kids would make a start. As long as parents continue to believe that they are responsible for their kids&#8217; education, career, marriage and at the end their happiness also &#8211; this country will continue to be what it is. Kids lean on parents and they in turn lean on the kids and they do not want to leave one another.</p>
<p>The country and its citizens should GROW up&#8230;</p>
<p>I enjoyed your language and ofcourse I am able to see your yearning to see the society to improve&#8230;</p>
<p>Love<br />
Tiger</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are We Trustworthy? by Kalpesh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kalpesh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2010 04:11:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good Post.

I might suggest changing the title to - do we trust other people enough?
and that can lead to another question - do we trust ourselves?

One of the basic problem is that the rules are applied on everyone.
e.g I asked one of my colleague as to why don&#039;t we have work from home facility?
To which the reply was, we don&#039;t know if people will really work when they are at home.

I agree with that response, somewhat.
Instead of applying this rule on everyone, people who don&#039;t give results (whether WFH or no WFH), should be told so. And give the flexibility to others who work &amp; give results.

The idea of blanket rule is equally bad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good Post.</p>
<p>I might suggest changing the title to &#8211; do we trust other people enough?<br />
and that can lead to another question &#8211; do we trust ourselves?</p>
<p>One of the basic problem is that the rules are applied on everyone.<br />
e.g I asked one of my colleague as to why don&#8217;t we have work from home facility?<br />
To which the reply was, we don&#8217;t know if people will really work when they are at home.</p>
<p>I agree with that response, somewhat.<br />
Instead of applying this rule on everyone, people who don&#8217;t give results (whether WFH or no WFH), should be told so. And give the flexibility to others who work &amp; give results.</p>
<p>The idea of blanket rule is equally bad.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are We Trustworthy? by satheesh</title>
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		<dc:creator>satheesh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 17:44:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Akki,

Thanks for this article. But we are facing same issue. As you said, that tough middle class mentality is very tough to adopt the change. In our company, we are trying make our team members like decision makers and ownership of what they are doing, it is kind of really a challenging task for us to convenience them in that direction. We tried for few months and got tired of it.

But we don&#039;t want to give up. with our 35 members staff, if we can bring the difference in 10-20% members,we might success in a sense.

Lets wish for the best :-)

Once again good one from my favorite Akki.

Thanks
Satheesh  k</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Akki,</p>
<p>Thanks for this article. But we are facing same issue. As you said, that tough middle class mentality is very tough to adopt the change. In our company, we are trying make our team members like decision makers and ownership of what they are doing, it is kind of really a challenging task for us to convenience them in that direction. We tried for few months and got tired of it.</p>
<p>But we don&#8217;t want to give up. with our 35 members staff, if we can bring the difference in 10-20% members,we might success in a sense.</p>
<p>Lets wish for the best <img src='http://www.after3beers.com/englishhome/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Once again good one from my favorite Akki.</p>
<p>Thanks<br />
Satheesh  k</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are We Trustworthy? by Vaidy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vaidy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 04:05:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for crystallizing these thoughts. They are all very true and their existence certainly makes it much harder to implement Agile.

We are doing our bit to emphasize the importance trust in our company - but after having read your post, its become apparent that we need to go on overdrive in this regard.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for crystallizing these thoughts. They are all very true and their existence certainly makes it much harder to implement Agile.</p>
<p>We are doing our bit to emphasize the importance trust in our company &#8211; but after having read your post, its become apparent that we need to go on overdrive in this regard.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are We Trustworthy? by Ajay Danait</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ajay Danait</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 03:37:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Defining &quot;trust&quot; = Firm reliance on the integrity ability or character of a person.

When you are hiring a &quot;trustworthy&quot; person, how much should the hiring mechanism be responsible for this? 

In the huge growth potential in offshore, there is a big &quot;unemployable&quot; section of Indian graduates.

This &quot;unemployability&quot; is not just technical but also behavioral. Behavioral science is called &quot;soft skills&quot; or optional training/coaching in the software industry i.e. when people are on bench lets train them to behave maturely.

Self-organizing teams cannot be built by relying on &quot;trustworthy&quot; people but by building a mechanism of trust.
e.g. Case of stationary self-organization. Put cameras (feedback mechanisms) and retrospect on the footage to understand the problem rather than putting in a &quot;manned&quot; procedure. Its not just the stationary but a case of inducing self-discipline. We have security cameras all over the place. Why not use a camera for instrumenting feedback?

When you want to build trust, look for personal alignment of an individual when the person is hired.
Conduct the behavioral ironing when the new joinee is booted into the company culture.

Trust cannot be just expected, trust can be built.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Defining &#8220;trust&#8221; = Firm reliance on the integrity ability or character of a person.</p>
<p>When you are hiring a &#8220;trustworthy&#8221; person, how much should the hiring mechanism be responsible for this? </p>
<p>In the huge growth potential in offshore, there is a big &#8220;unemployable&#8221; section of Indian graduates.</p>
<p>This &#8220;unemployability&#8221; is not just technical but also behavioral. Behavioral science is called &#8220;soft skills&#8221; or optional training/coaching in the software industry i.e. when people are on bench lets train them to behave maturely.</p>
<p>Self-organizing teams cannot be built by relying on &#8220;trustworthy&#8221; people but by building a mechanism of trust.<br />
e.g. Case of stationary self-organization. Put cameras (feedback mechanisms) and retrospect on the footage to understand the problem rather than putting in a &#8220;manned&#8221; procedure. Its not just the stationary but a case of inducing self-discipline. We have security cameras all over the place. Why not use a camera for instrumenting feedback?</p>
<p>When you want to build trust, look for personal alignment of an individual when the person is hired.<br />
Conduct the behavioral ironing when the new joinee is booted into the company culture.</p>
<p>Trust cannot be just expected, trust can be built.</p>
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